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+44(0)7739 260 600

We are passionate about intimacy and all our workshops are geared towards supporting you in different ways to find the deepest place of intimacy within yourself and with others that you can.

Upcoming Workshops:

I am currently teaching most of our workshops with my partner, beloved and co-therapist, Louise Mazanti, PhD.  We are currently runninng workshops in 2017 in the following locations:
Esalen Insitute, CA

Our flagship workshop is called The Invitation, a beautiful, deep personal journey into the heart of your relationship with intimacy.

The Invitation: How to manifest the fullness of your potential for intimacy

June 19th - 23rd 2017, The Skylight Centre, London
New dates posting soon...

Nov 8th - 12th, venue tba

An deep personal journey, using the Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy model. This workshop is a deep personal journey into your sexual self.

What is The Invitation?
The Invitation is a five-day non-residential workshop that introduces the vision, models and methods of Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy. The focus of is on personal development, offering you tools for understanding and addressing your own intimacy issues.

What is Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy?
Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy is a revolutionary, new body-oriented therapeutic modality dealing with sex and intimacy issues. Developed by Mike Lousada, Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy is a unique combination of neuroscience, psychotherapeutic and bodywork disciplines, it offers an integrated approach for addressing mind and body so that full resolution can be achieved.

Who is it for?
Anyone looking to mindfully explore their own relationship with sexuality, whether they are currently in a relationship or not. The Invitation is also a pre-requisite for the year long Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy practitioner training, which is approved by Association of Somatic & Integrative Sexology

What will I get from it?
• Insight into how you stop yourself from allowing intimacy
• Ability to step into your authority within yourself and in relationships
• Greater awareness of your shadows around sex
• Increased connection between mind and body
• New tools for dealing with challenging relational issues
• Increased awareness of your body and its wisdom
• Empowerment through choice
• An introduction to the Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy model

What can I expect?
This experiential workshop offers an opportunity for you to get to a deeper understanding of your sexuality, its drives, motivations – and blocks. You will be offered a clear road map that will help you understand your intimate life and how to improve it as well as developing a deeper understanding of your sexual self.

Focusing on your own journey we will use techniques from the Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy model, including guided visualisation, somatic (body) mindfulness and sensate tracking to help connect mind and body.

Teaching Faculty
Mike Lousada, Louise Mazanti

19 - 23 June 2017, 10am – 6pm daily

The Skylight Centre
49 Corsica Street
London N5 1JT

£595, payable in advance. You can secure your place by making a non-refundable and non-transferable deposit payment of £150 or pay the amount in full. Full payment is due one month before the start of the workshop.

How do I sign up?
Please email
Event page 

Further Questions?
Please email or call Mike Lousada on 07739 260 600 for further details.

Personal Development Workshops
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The Love Revolution: Break free of what is keeping you small!
Mendocino, CA
May 19th - 21st
3 days of deepening your connection with your beloved, of removing blocks and expanding into Love.  Start a Love Revolution in YOUR relationship.
Day 1: Unspoken Contracts is looking at the ways you connect, the hidden compromises and the unspoken agendas.
Day 2: Being yourself, fully offers ways to understand and communicate your real needs and desires.
Day 3: Let's talk about Pleasure! will give you a common language of pleasure and tools to explore it.

To book your place please email Joan McDowell on

Real Sex: Awaken your erotic intelligence

We have a deep yearning for love and aliveness in our body, yet our culture has hijacked sexuality with commercialism, pornography and performance pressure. So, how do we recapture the purity of our sexual self? How can we transform sex from something we do to a state of being? How can we have Real Sex?

On this deep, therapeutic journey you will be guided into the heart of your sexual self, a way of creating meaningful and fulfilling intimacy. You will discover the seven keys to awaken your erotic intelligence and teach you to love and accept your mind, body, feelings, desires and sexuality at a deeper level, leaving behind feelings of guilt, insecurity and shame.

Based on our book Real Sex: Why everything you learnt about sex is wrong (Hay House 2017) you will reconnect with the true meaning of sex and intimacy at a deep level. Through exercises and shared wisdom you will reawaken to your potential for love, joy and pleasure. You will begin to understand the power of embodied presence, of clean, not just clear, communication and a subtle sensitivity that will connect you with the potential of sex.

Please note this is a therapeutic workshop, aimed at personal development. There is no nudity or sexual activity in this workshop.

Helsinki, Finland: 8 - 10 Sept 2017
Esalen, California: 8 - 13 October 2017

TALK: Love and Freedom: Helsinki, Finland: 7 Sept and Antwerp, Belgium: dates tbc

PST Practitioner Training

We are currently in the 4th cohort, ending July 2017.  Further dates will be announced for 2018 -